Couples & Relationship Counselling in Jakarta
I am Vi, a Couples & Relationship Counsellor based in Jakarta, working in English and French 🇫🇷/🇬🇧.I am Vi, a Jakarta-based counsellor dedicated to helping partners navigate the complexities of modern intimacy. I provide a structured, neutral space for those seeking Western-style counselling that balances emotional depth with practical relational tools.
Relational Support in Jakarta
Relationships thrive on connection, yet the pace of modern life, career pressures, and the meeting of different cultural backgrounds can create deep-seated strain. I provide Expat relationship support in Jakarta alongside specialized therapy for mixed-nationality and internationally-minded Indonesian couples. Whether you are navigating a relocation, bridging different family traditions, or simply seeking a Western-style counselling framework that values directness and accountability, I help you move beyond blame and guide you to understand the patterns you are co-creating, fostering a partnership built on mutual respect and lasting clarity.
Who I Work With
I work with a diverse range of clients who feel most comfortable in an international therapeutic setting. My practice is a fit for:- Mixed-Cultural Couples: Often navigating the intersection of Western and Indonesian values, communication styles, and family expectations.- Expats and "Third Culture Kids" seeking relationship support in Indonesia to manage the specific pressures of mobile lives.- International Indonesians: couples who prefer
expressing their emotions in English and seek a Western-style counselling approach—direct, and evidence-based.- LGBTQI+ couples seeking a respectful and inclusive therapeutic space
About Vi & Approach
I am Vi, a Couples & Relationship Counsellor based in Jakarta. I work with English or French-speaking couples seeking structured support for their relationship.I was born to Vietnamese parents, grew up in France, and have lived in China and Indonesia for the past 20 years. Before focusing on relationship work, I worked in corporate roles and later within diplomatic and development organisations. This background informs my understanding of cross-cultural dynamics, relocation stress, and the pressures that dual-career and internationally mobile couples often face.My work is grounded in relational and systemic practice, with training through the Relational Life Institute and additional training with The Gottman Institute. I am currently completing my psychotherapy practitioner training with E-Faculte de Psychologie et Psychanalyse (France).Unlike traditional 'passive' therapy, I take an engaged role in the room and offer a environment that respects your cultural nuances while challenging the patterns that keep you stuck.
Practical Information
Session Format
Standard sessions are 60 to 90 minutes. Sessions can take place online or in person at my practice in Kebayoran Lama, South Jakarta. Online sessions are available to couples across Indonesia and internationally.For couples who would benefit from more focused work, extended sessions or structured intensives can be arranged.Fees
IDR 1,00,000 per 60-minute session.
IDR 1,500,000 per 90-minute session2026 Clinical Intake Initiative
As I prepare for my advanced certification in Relational Life Therapy (RLT), I am opening a limited number of slots at a Practice Development Rate of IDR 500,000/session.This rate is available for couples who start their journey before the end of 2026. It is my way of ensuring support remains accessible while I deepen my specialization in the RLT model.Introductory Call
I offer a brief introductory call to understand your situation and determine whether the work feels appropriate for both partners.
Frequently Asked Questions
What languages do you offer support in and where do you practise?
I offer relationship support services in English and French only (🇫🇷/🇬🇧), and see clients online, as well as in person in South Jakarta.What happens in the first session?
The first session is a chance for us to get oriented together. I'll ask about what's been happening in the relationship, how long things have felt difficult, and what each of you is hoping for. You don't need to prepare anything or have a clear goal — we start wherever you are. By the end, we'll have a shared sense of whether working together feels right, and what the focus of our work might be.How long does couples therapy usually take?
It varies, and I'm cautious about giving a number that sets the wrong expectation. Some couples come for 5 to 12 sessions focused on a specific issue. Others work over a longer period, particularly when patterns are deeply entrenched or trust has been significantly damaged. We'll review progress as we go, and you're never locked into a fixed commitment.Is there a difference between couples therapy, couples counselling, and marriage counselling?
Not in any meaningful way. These terms are often used interchangeably, and what they refer to in practice is largely the same: a structured space where both partners can explore what is happening in their relationship with the support of a trained professional.
In our sessions, we typically begin by mapping the patterns that keep showing up — the recurring arguments, the moments of disconnection, the dynamics that feel stuck. From there, we work on understanding what each partner brings to those patterns, and what might need to shift. This is not about blame but about helping both partners see the relationship more clearly and develop new ways of relating.Do you provide diagnoses?
My approach is relational and non-pathologizing. I don't focus on diagnosing individuals, but on understanding the patterns within the relationship. If concerns arise that would benefit from specialist clinical support, I'll discuss this openly and provide appropriate referrals.I’ve never done anything like this before, what if I don’t know where to start?
That's completely okay. You don't need to have the right words or a clear goal. We'll start wherever you are, at a pace that feels safe for both of you.
What is your professional background and training?
I am a trained counsellor working with an Internal Family Systems (IFS)–informed approach, and I have completed Level 2 training in The Gottman Method, and Relational Life Therapy (RLT). I am currently undertaking a diploma as a practitioner in psychotherapy with the EFPP in France. You may learn more about IFS here and RLT here.Is couples therapy worth the time and money?
It's a fair question. Alongside the investment, it's worth considering what staying stuck costs — the emotional toll of unresolved conflict, the impact on children, or the weight of a relationship that feels unfulfilling. Couples therapy isn't only about avoiding pain; it's about building the skills and foundation for more connection, resilience, and joy.
Counselling with Vi | Specialized Relationship Support for Expats and International Couples | Kebayoran Lama, South Jakarta, Indonesia | Bilingual English & French Sessions | [email protected]